Saturday, 30 January 2010

The power of imagination makes us infinite !

Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footsteps on the MOON..!!

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

Thursday, 28 January 2010

Wednesday, 6 January 2010

what has changed ?

it's been so complicated lately , happy times are no longer happy ! .. desperation has filled the surroundings .. something has changed .. it's not the same smile , the same laugh the same " how are you " call , not any more ..
I know that people change , I have changed in a previous period of my life , but it was temporary .. I was trying each day and each moment to bring myself back to the old me , because nobody likes changes , I don't like the new me , and people around me won't like the new me ! .. I knew that I needed to go back to being ME .. the old me .. the happy pleasant , fun to be around - me .

disregarding the length of this period , it has ended eventually , I've stopped being someone else .. now I know how much it's nice to be me again .. I love me and not whoever invaded my spirit !

but what if not everybody is like my situation , people do change .. but do they feel the need to go back to their old selves .. don't they just resent this change ! don't they see that people around them don't like this new them ! ..
what if they don't ..
what to do in this case .. do you accept the person the way he is ,, or should I say the way he became ! .. or should you stay away from him , because he is no longer the same person ..
it is a kind of betrayal , people changing , they betray the confidence of their loved ones ..

nobody imagines that a person so close to him would become a person too far from him in the same body ,, that is very selfesh and self-centered .

do I deserve to lose someone so close to me just because he decided to change ! .. why can't he simply strive to change back to the person I admire .. !

it hurts , this thing really hurts .. it's not like life or fate has chosen this thing for us beyond our will .. what hurts is that this happened because someone you love chose this for himself ,, not considering your feelings ! ..

but no matter what they do , how much they change , you will not stop loving them , adoring them , at least the memory of the old them .. because you are still you .. and you can't hold a grudge for them ,, they will remain a peice of you no matter what ..

and you will secretly miss them .. not telling them that .. because it might hurt them that you don't like the new them ! you will be hurting to see them , the picture of them , with a new them .. but still love them and not afford to be mad at them for what they've done .. for not seeing or considering your feelings !
I will miss you , and hope that someday you'll be back .. I'll wait , it's not fair to leave you ..
come back please !
" Thing do not change , people change , whether we like it or not .. just please don't make this so hard for me "

Saturday, 2 January 2010